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It is best to approach the discussion about introducing new toys in a loving, non-judgmental way. Your partner might feel judged or feel as if the current sexual dynamics in your relationship isn't quite right.

Start small using a wand vibration device, such as Lelo's Lily 2, designed for shared pleasure. You can also choose an enchained clip from Adam Eve for a bondage-esque exploration of the tips of the nipples.

1. Sex Games

If your partners are feeling a little bored in the bedroom or in their relationship in general, sex games are a great way to spice things up without having to discuss sex. These games that are flirty are a great way for couples to get to know each other and spark sexual desire.

Try impromptu, sexy games such as "Truth or Dare" to break the cold. In this game, you'll make use of different tools for sensation play such as pleasure products or household objects to test them out on your partner in different positions, like on the thighs or around the neck. The receiver must choose between A and B to aid the giver in developing their skill set, and discover their sexual desires.

This game is also a great way to explore new sexual fantasies and kinks. For instance, the game gives the participant the opportunity to learn about the kinks of their partner through scat play, foot worship or role-playing. Then, incorporate these into future sex routines.

Play the card game bedroom battles to get a more competitive feel. This fun and steamy game includes a die, a timer and two sets of cards that come with explicit instructions like "put a blindfold on your partner," "grab their feet" and "take them by the hair."

2. Sex Toys

Sex toys can be a lot of fun for couples regardless of gender. Wearables such as cock rings and vibratos that can be placed on the vagina or penis are among the most sought-after couples' sexual toys. These devices are designed to hit certain pleasure points and lessen the workload for partners, which can make foreplay more enjoyable.

Some couples prefer to add vibrators that can be used for penetration. There are also options that are ideal for masturbation. The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo is a toy that can be worn hands-free by the male and placed over the partner's erection to create vibrations. It has six intensity levels and is water-proof. This means that it can be used in the bathroom, or to have a sexual experience outside of the bedroom.

Another option for penetrative play is the wand vibrator made by Womanizer, which has two stimulators on its ends and is available in an array of skin tones. The wand can be made into a S-form or C-shape and can bend, making it easier to target specific erogenous areas.

Toys like the packer and dildo by New York Toy Collective can be used by both partners for sexual sex and masturbation. Frost is a fan of the fact that they are available in various sizes to suit circumcised or uncircumcised people. She also recommends the brand's Shilo which is constructed from a posable material that's latex-free and has a head for G-spot as well as prostate stimulation.

3. Sex Accessories

When used correctly, some accessories can be very exciting. Particularly with regard to hand-free masturbation toys that are suitable for couples, these bedroom additions can add a whole lot of heat to sexual exploration.

A Wand vibrator is an iconic sex toy for couples that's easy to use and perfect for anyone who prefers more gentle stimulation. This Manta Ray vibration from New York Toy Collective is the most popular among gay couples. It has an attractive curved surface one side and a smooth spherical surface on the other. The vibrator for hands-free use is available with a variety of intensity and batteries that last for up to four hours.

Another cool sex accessory for couples is a couple's masseuse by Dame. It's shaped like an clitoral hood and the sleeve features a ribbed texture. This stimulates the clits as well as G-spots and penis. It has a textured silicone body that is extremely soft to the touch, and is made from medical-grade materials.

Handcuffs can be too "sexual" to be used in a bedroom. However, when used in a playful and safe way they can be very enjoyable. Whether you're just experimenting with couple's handcuffs for the first time or are an experienced pair of BDSM pros, this soft white set from Honey Birdette is fun and enjoyable while adding some serious stroking action to your bedroom play.

4. Sex Gear

There are plenty of fun ways to explore erogenous zones partners. Sex toys for couples are available in a wide range of thrilling options such as hot wax play to vibrating rings, clitoral vibrations and even clitoral. You can be confident that you're getting only the best sexual games by choosing brands like We-Vibe and Lelo.

Sex toys are available in a wide range of costs, so shopping for them with an open mind is essential. Frost says that a strap-on sex toys is "the ultimate toy for couples." He's a fan of the harnesses from SpareParts, which are easy on and off with velcro and use an elastic silicone o-ring which will not shift. He also says that he's found a harness is great for pegging or consensual power exchange.

Another item for couples that is sure to delight is this thong vibrator combination from OhMiBod. The wearable is USB rechargeable, and it provides stimulant vibrations and a comfy fit. The remote control allows you to alter the intensity. It's also a dildo-holder, which is ideal for arousing your partner's clitoris and vulva when they are masturbating. You can also choose the more traditional approach and purchase this set of red handcuffs that have furry lining from Bellesa Boutique. The cuffs hold the wrists and arms, and can be tightened as required.